last updated:17.3.25
When you genuinely start loving yourself, taking care of yourself - you take full responsibility for YOU.
you take responsinr the inner child inner cutie, the ambitious woman, being the masculine , being the fsnininine, whatever you want to call it.
You always make sure that your surroundings feel same as much as it could. You become aware of what doesn’t feel safe and what makes you feel more safe. You become curious about what kind of people make you feel safe. Apply this to anything I. Life, and you are living in the present at all times. I’m
It’s I’d muy importante to know this as a baseline knowledge of the self. Only then you can ask yourself questions like /
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do I know what I need to feel safe ?
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Now from this place of safety, do I need to challenge myself and take risks. Or do I need to safeguard the current resources and maintain this safe space.
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As I continue to interact with the outside world , as I start integrating with the elements outside of me, how do they make me feel. Is this threatening to my safe space, I retreat and block my self expression. What is that telling me about myself? What can I do now , so I can continue to feel safe.
What do I fo this hour, so I feel safer in the next hour
What do I need to do today, so I feel more calm and content tomorrow
What can I do this month, so I can invite more rest and peace in the next montj
What can I do this year, to be ready for the person I will be next year
—daily meditations for the chaotic minds of a moody girl
So do you know what is your safe space?
Your chica 💋
p.s. on this quest of safe space for the last few years, the first thing that made sense for the first time in my life was when I going journaling. I have been journaling for the past 5 years now, have multiple filled and filled , most of them in storage in Canada .
Besides my love and appreciation for free flow journaling I also found comfort in bullet journaling. In 2021,2022, I even hosted some workshops of bullet journaling. It was a fun project from deep in my heart. I was able to combine my love for journaling; calligraphy, structure and organization all in one place.
Side note - journaling was what saved me. Through journaling, I started realizing what I loved and didn’t love.
Being a techie at heart